֍ 55 ֍ TOP 20 • Pet Peeves • People

֍ 55 ֍ TOP 20 • Pet Peeves • People

Insecure-ism, assholism, and narcissism reflect deep-rooted feelings of inadequacy and envy. Various tactics like belittling, bullying, and manipulation are used on victims to boost their fragile egos. Here are various techniques used to exploit kindness, driven by an underlying need to assert dominance:

1. Insecure-ism ● “You look great today, but I need to mock you because you’re making me incredibly insecure.” people ● “Your success makes me incredibly insecure, so I need to make fun of you,” people ● “I need to disparage you from trying to improve yourself because you’re not allowed to be better than me. I’m your glass ceiling,” people ● Ridiculing or mocking someone’s success while little achievements in their name, people ● “When I meet new people that I need to ridicule my friend so they don’t notice my insecurity,” people
2. Insecure-ism ● “I made a huge mistake. Now we both have an emergency because I’m incapable of taking ownership of my problems,” people.
3. Insecure-ism ● “I need to quickly find an error in your creation so that I marginalize your success and not feel bad that I’ve done fuck-all” people ● “There’s likely a mistake in your (insert: presentation, product, picture, article, video, art, creation, etc.), and I’m going to be the first to find it,” people ● aka. “Finding Waldo,” people ● aka. “You missed a spot,” people.
4. Insecure-ism ● “Let’s bully smart people so that I don’t have to feel bad about my lack of academic achievements,” people.
5. Insecure-ism ● “Your ego is way too inflated at the moment. Let me help you bring that down a few notches because you’re reminding me of my insecurities,” people.
6. Insecure-ism ● “I can’t tell you what’s truly going on in my life because I see you as a competitor and not a true friend. My need to win and display a facade of success overshadows any desire to show you my reality,” people.
7. Assholism ● “I’m happy to exploit your skills and get your [insert: products, services, solutions, art, creation, skills, etc.] for free because I attribute zero value to your talents.” people.
8. Assholism ● “Thanks for the great idea, but I need to ping-pong a task back to you so I can sit back and continue to do nothing,” people.
9. Assholism ● “I need to feed you with a bunch of lies, gaslight the true, and continue to manipulate you like a little bitch” ● “Let me tell you a story that’s completely fabricated so that I can get something out of you.” people ● “How do I manipulate you for my gain before you leave,” people.
10. Assholism ● “Since [men, women, they, them, everyone] are assholes, my only recourse is to be an asshole,” people.
11. Assholism ● “I don’t give a fuck about truth or virtue, I only want to be on the winning team” people ● “I’ll switch sides, and change my views on a dime if I see the other team winning,” people ● “I have no moral integrity, I’m just a parasite for the winning side. It doesn’t matter who wins,” people.
12. Assholism ● Eyes rolling, “You’re so full of shit! I have zero respect for what you’re telling me. I’m sick and tired of your constant [insert: boss, manager, adult, uncle, woman, man]-splaining bullshit,” people. ● aka. “I’m the smartest person in the room,” people. ● “I‘m going to take the opposite view of everything you say, regardless of whether I agree or not,” people. ● aka. Devil’s Advocate people.
13. Assholism ● “Let me tell you about their transgressions so that I don’t have to feel bad about their misfortune,” people.
14. Cameleon Assholism ● Around rednecks: “Fuckin’ gays make me uncomfortable. They’re not normal!” Around parents with LGBTQ2+ children: “I truly sympathize with the queer community and their struggles. People should all be able to make their own choices,” people.
15. Narcissism ● “How dare you have a good time when my life sucks,” people ● “My life sucks so much that I need to convince you that everyone’s life sucks,” people ● “Never come to me showing joy because I will immediately remind you how much I suffer every day – unless, of course, your joy is because of me. That ok,” people. ● “I fuckin’ hate that you’re happy with your life. I’ll celebrate when you crash and burn,” people.
16. Narcissism ● “I need you to change your behavior to make my life easier. I’ll manipulate you into believing you’re doing it for our relationship. I don’t need to change anything because there’s nothing wrong with me. I’m perfect,” people.
17. Narcissism ● “I need to pretend to feel sick so that you don’t go out and enjoy yourself with your friends.” people ● “When you’re out with your friends I need to call you regularly to remind you that you’re still my bitch,” people.
18. Narcissism ● “Everything you say is full of shit, everything you watch is fake news, I have no respect or interest in your opinion, but I’ll look into your eyes as though I’m listening! But listen to my monologue, because I’m the smartest person in the room,” people.
19. Narcissism ● “When you piss me off then I’m going to a) give you the silent treatment for as many days as I feel you’ve caused me pain, b) deny you sex and use it as a weapon, or c) cheat on you relentlessly to replenish my narcissistic supply. Once I’m done, everything will be back to normal – as if nothing happened,” people.
20. Narcissism ● “I will grant an inconsequential favor so that one day when I need something, you’ll be my bitch,” people.

Be Kind.

Assholism, insecure-ism, and narcissism reflect deep-rooted feelings of inadequacy and envy.

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